Those "friends" you have

Time to talk about true friends & those "friends." I have had a lot of this in my life, everyone has at one point or another. Having so many people come in & out of my life through out the years (had this happen with two individuals quite recently); some have been with me for five / ten plus years, some were only there for five months. You learn everyday by others actions & words of what they truly think of you.

At first you may not realize it or you choose to ignore it because you on the other hand value the friendship & don't want to see it disappear. But I say it's the same with a relationship; If the effort is only one sided... don't expect it to work. It will eventually fall apart. It's all about give & take.

You know, those "friends" that only turn to you when they need something or have no one else to turn to, knowing you're dependable & will never turn them away. Those "friends" who when you need them in return, they are no where to be found. Those "friends" that will turn their back on you for the most ridiculous reasons. Also love the "fake" nice friends; you can tell inside they are gritting their teeth while trying to be nice.

Yeah... those friends... ARE A WASTE OF YOUR TIME! Because clearly they have shown you were a waste of their's. People grow apart & grow up; it's life. Yes it may hurt, but it will be alright & you will move on. I believe that certain people come into your life as a lesson, learn from it!

Surround yourself with the right people that lift you up, bring out the best in you & that make you shine! That show you they value your friendship just as much as you do! The second your having a bad day, you automatically reach out to the right people. Your brain knows who you can trust & so does your heart. Even if it's someone you haven't talked to for a few months, I bet they will answer as you would for them.

I know personally I should try harder to reach out, but we all get caught up in life. But I know the second I'm having a bad day or I need to talk, I know deep down who I can turn to.

I'm so grateful to have so many wonderful people in my life. The support & love I have from everyone, I wouldn't trade it for anything in the world.

All I hope is to be the best for them as well.

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